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Can you get a divorce without going to court in the UK?

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Posted in: Divorce, Family and children
Date published: 10/07/2023

Divorce can be a difficult and emotional process. In the UK, many couples wonder if it’s possible to get a divorce without going to court, especially if both parties agree. In this article, we’ll explore how to divorce in the UK, the process of getting a divorce without going to court, and the various factors that may come into play.

The divorce process: An overview

Before discussing the possibility of getting a divorce without going to court, it’s essential to understand the overall divorce process. The divorce process typically involves the following steps:

  1. Application
  2. Reflection period (mandatory 20 weeks)
  3. Conditional Order (formerly known as Decree Nisi)
  4. Final Order (formerly known as Decree Absolute)

Is it possible to divorce without going to court?

In short, it is possible to get a divorce without going to court in the UK, if both parties agree with the divorce.

If both parties agree with the divorce

If both parties agree, the divorce process will proceed as follows: your husband or wife will initiate the application for a legal document called a “conditional order” or a “decree nisi” to initiate the end of the marriage. Subsequently, they will need to apply for a “final order” or a “decree absolute” to complete the divorce and make it official.

If one party disagrees (or disputes) the divorce

If you and your spouse disagree on the divorce, it will necessitate a court hearing where both of you will be required to attend and work towards reaching an agreement.

Factors that may require court intervention

While getting a divorce without going to court is possible, certain factors may require court intervention, even in an uncontested divorce. These factors can include:

Financial arrangements

When getting a divorce, dividing any shared finances, such as joint bank accounts, investments, and debts, is essential. If you and your partner cannot agree on how to divide these assets, you may need to go to court for a financial order. This process can involve additional court fees and may prolong the divorce process. It is always recommended for the financial aspects of the marriage to be settled, before finalising the divorce.

Child arrangements

Another factor that may require court intervention during a divorce is childcare arrangements. If you and your partner cannot agree on where your children will live or how their time will be split between both parents, you may need to go to court for a child arrangements order. Again, this can involve additional court fees and may prolong the divorce process.

Dispute resolution methods

Before resorting to going to court, couples are encouraged to explore alternative dispute resolution methods, such as mediation, arbitration, or collaborative law. These methods can help you and your partner reach an agreement without court intervention, potentially saving time and money.

The importance of seeking legal advice

Seeking legal advice from a qualified solicitor is essential. A solicitor can help you navigate the divorce process, ensuring that your rights are protected and that you’re not taken advantage of by your partner. Additionally, a solicitor can provide guidance on alternative dispute resolution methods and help you avoid going to court, if possible.

How much does a divorce cost?

Divorce in the UK comes with various costs, including the £593 court fee to file for divorce. While online companies may offer “cheap” divorce packages, it’s essential to ensure that these packages include the court fee and any additional fees that may arise, such as financial or child arrangements orders.

The timeline for divorce

With the introduction of no-fault divorce, the process of applying for a divorce now takes a minimum of around 26 weeks. However, agreeing voluntarily on the details of a divorce can be much faster, and fast resolution can be obtained through non-confrontational dispute resolution methods, such as mediation and collaborative law.

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In conclusion, it is possible to get a divorce without going to court in the UK if both parties agree to the divorce and the reasons behind it. However, certain factors, such as financial arrangements and child arrangements, may require court intervention if an agreement cannot be reached. To make the divorce process as smooth as possible, it’s essential to seek legal advice, explore alternative dispute resolution methods, and ensure that all fees are accounted for.

This article is for general information only and does not constitute legal or professional advice. Please note that the law may have changed since this article was published.

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Published by:

Iwona DurlakSenior Partner

Family Law – IMD Solicitors LLP


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